For those of you just jumping into year five of this wild and crazy ride, a short update is in order. In early 2007, our then baby boy was diagnosed with a rare cranial abnormality called metopic craniosynostosis. Immediate surgery was necessary to prevent ICP (intercranial pressure) on the brain, blindness, deafness and brain damage. Surgery was successful and much reconstruction was done to fit Cullan with a skull that would grow with him. And grow they have over these last five years!
God has been so good to our family. Many people may question that and do question that sometimes. How do I know, you ask? Frankly, they have said so many times over. Sometimes, people we know, many times, perfect strangers. The answer to "How could you go through that, I know I couldn't!", is always the same...God CAN. God CAN do exceeding, abundantly above ALL that we ask or think. And, He does. He can give the grace, strength, endurance and soundness of mind to experience the "whatevers" you get hit with in this life. He can and He does. Do we understand? Usually not. But, He is faithful, and we can't expect to have the ability to experience whatever we may have to walk through, before it's time. I guess that would kind of be like saying, I want to know what its like to fly to the moon, have a baby, be married to one person for fifty years, etc....before you actually do it. Some things we just don't get to know before we need to. And that's ok. I didn't say any of this was easy, but it is ok.
Back in the fall, we did receive the news that Cullan would indeed need a second surgery. (You can read where we announced it here.) The openings made to allow the growth in his skull that he needed that typically fuses back on its own, did not fuse back in Cullan's case (this happens about 5% of the time with his particular diagnosis). Once again, we found ourselves in such small odds. But, God really isn't concerned too much about percentages, or odds as a matter of fact!
Many people had questions about the repeat surgery. The medical aspect of the hole in Cullan's skull looks like this. Basically he had no skull covering an area at the top of his head about the size of a fifty cent piece. For a child climbing trees, playing soccer, having three rambunctious brothers, and just plain being a natural born daredevil....not such a good thing. Injury to the brain was a high risk. Cullan was also having ongoing pain in the areas of his forehead where his body had made a lot of scar tissue from the first reconstruction. Scar tissue and adhesions in those areas under the skin are common things, and very painful. Especially if you are bumping them on a somewhat regular basis.
For Cullan, our family and our team of surgeons, a few things had changed. Blood transfusion procedures had changed. His doctors wanted two adult units/four pediatric units on hand for his surgery. His first surgery required all of those to be used and were donated by family with compatible blood. This time, his doctors would only accept blood from parents. A lot of issues over the last five years with reactions called for stricter standards. Unfortunately, neither of us have his exact blood type. Blood from the bank was placed on hold for his use.
This time, since Cullan was a Big Boy, his doctor was concerned about the emotional side of things concerning shaving his head, and preferred to take a strip of hair as opposed to shaving his head like the first time. It was left up to his discretion as a decision to be made in the OR.
Another change for this surgery, was the actual procedure itself. Cullan's doctor preferred to use Cullan's own bone as opposed to any kind of synthetic material to cover the hole in the skull. The thought behind this is lower risks of infection as well as the body tends to accept something that already belongs to it better than anything foreign. Options for bone harvesting were ribs and hip bone. These were both options for the surgeon to choose his preference in the OR once he could see what he was working with and what would best fit the needs of the skull. As with any bone harvesting, especially in the rib area, there are risks. We were aware of those risks and had prayed for the best for Cullan, whatever that may be.
One change for our family this time around was, our baby wasn't Cullan. It was Gaven, and he was just 9 weeks old. Logistically, that made for a lot of changes! We had Cullan's brothers to think of as well. It is a lot to process when your brother has to have something as major as this done.
Pretty much, everything else stayed the same. We did our pre-operative testing the day before. They took blood to get exact matches and checked his overall health to be sure he was up for surgery. His hospital stay was expected to be the same a week to ten days depending on his recovery. During the scheduling process, we ran up against some hair-raising dilemmas with deductibles and doctor's schedules being close to Christmas, but finally settled on being the first case on December 13th.
The day/night before, we spent much time in prayer both with friends and as a family. (You can read about 30 Days of Prayer for Cullan here.) Since Cullan was five and a half this time around, we had concerns for his concerns. Anxiety, fear, nightmares, strange behavior, anything that was a sign of his reaction to this procedure were on our radar. As parents, we decided on telling Cullan a few weeks prior to his surgery so he could think, ask questions and be prepared. He was able to finish up his sports season,
get to know his new baby brother,
and be in the church Christmas program,
and pretty much everything he wanted to be sure not to miss out on. Thank you Lord, for being in even the smallest of details where Your timing is concerned.
Surgery morning arrived with no complications. Nothing to eat or drink after 7 the night before, no teeth brushing the morning of. We arrived at 5:30 a.m. at our hospital to be checked in and to wait. We didn't wait alone. Not only did the Lord send His presence with us, but dear friends and co-laborers in the ministry met us there to wait. We made friends with the fish in the aquarium, and Cullan named a particularly large orange fish "Muttonhead." We prayed with Cullan around that little fish tank one last time, before his name was called. Then, Mom and Dad could go back to his holding area room. Child life brought toys and a cool car to ride to the OR in. We briefly met with his doctor for one last overview of the procedure. Clearly, his doctor was in his zone. For that we were very grateful.
Our first update came at 9:10 a.m. Everything was going well. Shortly after 10 a.m., Cullan's doctor came out to meet with us. I honestly thought something had come up that he couldn't finish. It was so early. So much earlier than even he had anticipated. But, contrary to my first reaction, they were finished! It went amazingly well the doctor said. He used the rib to cover the opening. He also smoothed out the bumps and calcification from the first surgery in his forehead area. He had not needed any blood during surgery. None! Maybe the first night, he may still need a transfusion, but they would watch his levels closely. He was on iv pain medication and nausea medicine. Instructions for the next few months came like rapid-fire. No anything for 3 weeks. No rough-housing for 12 weeks (that's 3 months or an eternity if you are a five year old boy!). His rib incision could re-open.
Now, as soon as they called us, we could go back to recovery and see him! This was also a change from last time. We didn't see Cullan for several hours after his first surgery.
We saw our sweet Cullan all wrapped up again hooked up to many lines. His favorite animal was dressed and wrapped to match Cullan snuggled up next to him. They were resting. Cullan had no adverse reactions to the anesthesia which was a definite answer to prayer. Some of the children in the other recovery areas were having those reactions and it was very sad. We waited in recovery several hours waiting for his room in CCU to open up.
|ICU first night noticing his bear blanket complete with matching head dressing|
|The view from Cullan's Window---some ICU Christmas cheer|
Proverbs 14:30 A tranquil heart gives life to the flesh. We prayed for peace over every situation and environment that each and every one of us would walk in and out of each day of this week. And He gave it freely.
|Enjoying a visit from big brother|
After that came out, things settled down. Cullan's labs looked great and we were set to be moved to a room as soon as they could find one for us. Later that evening they were able to find a room for us. We spent just over 24 hours in CCU this time as opposed to four days last time. Such a blessing!
That evening, we got Cullan adjusted to his new room and nurses (who were amazing, every single one of them!) He had a great night and only woke up to potty once and get his medicines.
Meanwhile, his baby brother was not adjusting to his situation quite as well. He wanted his Momma, and nothing else was working. But, just as God would work it out, one of the nurses came to us and let us know that we were on the cancer wing. No one could be there who was sick or had any contact with sickness in the past two weeks. She said it was the safest place to have a newborn, and he was welcome to hang out in Cullan's room all day and evening. We just had to go home overnight. YES! What a blessing. So that is what we did. Everyone was MUCH happier. Cully, loved having a hunk of his family with him. Brothers came to visit and were very sweet and encouraging.
Bandages came off of the incision today which was painful. About thirty minutes later, pain was back under control again.
Today, Cullan started having stomach aches. Complications from anesthesia and pain meds tend to upset the gastrointestinal systems. This is pretty common with any surgery. The doctor prescribed Miralax to help.
Cullan experienced a good bit of itching as well as temperature fluctuations this time. Side effects of anesthesia.
Cullan's meal choices by this point are cracking us up. Grilled Cheese and Cheeseburgers for breakfast...omelets for dinner.
By this point, everything was looking really good. Incisions, lines. Gastro system was still the only thing waiting to kick back in. This proved to be uncomfortable for Cullan...mostly the administering of the medicines to help. It is difficult to convince your child whom has experienced so much already that more medicine needs to help him get the rest of the way back to normal.
|Cullan's smile is back!|
After much prayer and some medicine, all systems were finally up and functioning. We would get to go home on Day 6?!? Awesome. Awesome God. Awesome Power. We are amazed at how good He has been to us and our sweet Cullan. One exclamation made time and time again each day of our hospital stay was the same, "We just can't believe how well Cullan's doing and how quickly he is bouncing back!" Thank you Lord for amazing Cullan's doctors, nurses and everyone else in between. We praise YOU! All glory belongs to YOU.
Our discharge instructions were to keep all incisions dry until our next visit with the doctor in 10 days. We had cool no rinse soap to take home for bathing that worked great. Cullan was a trooper at following all the doctor's instructions.
|Goodbye hospital, HELLO HOME!|
Keeping a five year old from roughhousing with three other brothers has proved to be a challenge, but everyone wants only total healing for Cully, so everyone has put their best effort forward. He has had few minor mishaps, but God has been very protective over him.
Over the last six months, we have been so blessed with health. Cullan has had no signs of infection. His eating habits returned very quickly, his sleep schedule is also back to normal. Our school year was interrupted and we are doing a bit of backtracking there just to be on the safe side and make sure we have a strong foundation before moving on to first grade.
About four months post op, Cullan had some pain issues around the incision which spans ear to ear. It turns out some of the interior sutures try to work there way out of the skin and that can cause pain and irritation. Nerve endings will also cause headaches. He appears to be handling those much better now.
About six weeks ago, Cullan did develop a CSF leak as a result of the surgery. It manifested itself as a huge squishy swollen place on the side of his head that I found while cutting his hair. His doctor said sometimes a tiny pin-prick hole can allow spinal fluid to leak out and cause those large swollen areas. Typically, the pressures on the inside and out would equal themselves out and it essentially seals itself off which appears to be what has happened for us. We did read that caffeine can help seal those off, and we did allow him to indulge for about a week. During that time was when it disappeared. So, I am not saying that is definitely a solution for every instance, or if God just worked His healing touch once again or He chose to use a little coffee to fix him up. Either way, Cully is all good now, and for that we are thankful.
We just had our six month post op visit last week which he passed with flying colors. We are officially on "maintenance". Any more CSF issues and we report back, but other than that we are at one year now!!!! Awesome God. Amazing power.
All of you who have lifted us up in prayer and supported us in so many ways can never know how much that means to our family. We know it will be a testament of God's faithfulness in Cullan's life for years to come as he grows to understand God's constant hand on his life. We feel privileged to have been blessed with Cullan and praise God for all the ways He has shown Himself faithful to us time and time again.